Get support from others – a friend or a group of friends who also want some change in their life. Spend some time reading some books around the law of attraction/upliting spiritual books. Start a book club – read a book a month or a week and then get together and talk through what you have learnt. Spiritual books like these are very spiritually uplifting. You can often feel your energy field increasing while you are reading these books.
Get together with at least one other person who also wants to change something in their life, who you are similar to. Start this work with support. Share your dreams and visions with your support group. This process can really move on your creating of your dreams so much quicker. It can really help break your negative thought patterns:
I cant change things. It is just how it is. I am not deserving. This isnt possible. I dont know what to do.
What do you want? Only give your energy to what you do want. Start visualising, imagining, focussing on this new life – draw it to you. Ask the universe. Allow it to come in.
In your support group, each take turns to describe what you want, in as much detail as possible. Get them to ask you questions about your dream as if you are currently living it. Describe your dream in the present tense. Tell them how your life is in this dream scenario. Describe it by using your senses – what can you see? what can you hear? how does it smell? how does it feel? Describe your emotions. Where do you live? What is your job? Who do you have in your life with you? How much money do you have? Describe it fully to your support group. This is powerful work. Getting support can really shift things for you.
Esther and Jerry Hicks
Sanaya Roman and Duane Packer
Thich Nhat Hanh